Shin girman kai ne mara kyau ko mai kyau?

Kowannenmu mutum ne mai ban mamaki da cikakkiyar gaskiya. Kowannenmu yana wakiltar wani abu, yana da tsari na musamman na siffofi da halaye na hali, tunani na musamman da hangen nesan duniya, wanda ya sa mu bambanta da juna. Duk da haka a cikin ilimin halayyar ɗan adam akwai abubuwa da dama da suka hada da hada baki da mutane a duniya, da dama abubuwan da ke cikin tunanin mutum a kowane mutum. Daya daga cikin wadannan halaye na dabi'ar mutum shine girman kai. Amma menene girman kai da kuma amfani da shi a yanayin rayuwar zamani?

Basic definition

Sauran Talmuds masu tunani suna ba da gaskiya ga ma'anar daban-daban. Amma a gaba ɗaya, dukansu sun yarda cewa girman kai ba komai bane illa kare kimar zamantakewarsu da kuma dacewa. A wasu kalmomi, girman kai yana iya kasancewa hanyar layi ta hanyar da mutum yake ci gaba da kansa, ya zama mafi kyau, mai kyau, mafi kyau kuma yana riƙe da darajarsa a cikin al'umma. Abinda ke da dangantaka, ba shakka. Amma an wannan hali hali ne mai kyau tutu inganta harkokin rayuwarsu? Kowane mutum zai sami amsar ga kansa, domin kowane ɗayanmu yana da dalili na sirri. Duk da haka, bari kawai mu ce: ba tare da ƙauna da girmamawa kanmu ba, karawa na ruhaniya, ci gaban jiki da na hankali ba zai yiwu ba.

Sharuɗɗa da Cons

Amma bayan duk karfin kai-da-kai yana da kyau - mutane da dama za su ce. Kuma wasu za su amsa da akasin haka, suna cewa, ɗaukakawa da kansu suna da lalacewar halin kirki. Kuma, ta hanyar, ma, zai kasance daidai. Bayan haka, mutum mai girman kai, a matsayin mai mulki, yana kokarin ba kawai don sanar da wasu game da ci gaba da girma a kan kansa ba, amma har ma a kowane hanyar da za ta iya taimaka wa yaudarar kansa. Hakika, wannan gaskiya ne idan mutum ya damu ƙwarai da kansa, amma, kamar yadda aikin ya nuna, ko da mafi yawan mutane suna da haɓaka da kansu "I".

Yabon mutane

Daga ra'ayi na ilimin halayyar mutumtaka, girman kai shine lokacin da mutum ya shawo kan lamarin ta hanyoyi daban-daban na yarda da zamantakewa. A wasu kalmomin, idan an yabe mu, muna girma a idanuwanmu, kuma a madadin haka. Mutum mai mutunci, a matsayin mai mulkin, yana gina kansa a kan wani nauyin dabi'u da burin da dole ne a samu a duk farashi, kuma don wannan yana da muhimmanci don yin ƙoƙarin yin kokari a wani wuri kuma yin wani abu. Hakika, wannan abu ne mai kyau, musamman ma a lokuta inda mutum yana neman burin da ke amfani da ita da kuma al'umma. Amma idan mutum ya bi tafarkin hallaka kansa da gangan, girman kai yana taka muhimmiyar rawa a nan. Yana da mahimmanci a tuna da cewa wannan inganci a kanta shi ne haɓaka ga sha'awar da ayyuka, amma ba ainihin dalili ba.

Zuciya kai tsaye

"Babu wanda yake son masu son kai," in ji mutane da yawa. Amma a gaskiya ma, yana da sha'awar mutane, musamman ma wadanda suke jin daɗin kansu. Don tayar da irin wannan mutumin wani lokaci ne mai sauqi qwarai - kawai ka ce kalma ɗaya. A yanzu akwai girman kai mai girman kai wanda mutum yake maida hankalinsa ne kawai don jin dadin bukatunsa da bukatunsa, bai kula da wasu ba, da yawa. Zamu iya cewa irin karfi da aka nuna akan wannan ingancin yana haifar da mummunar ta'addanci, wato, ga matsananciyar son kai.

Gurin zama na farko

Amma idan muna magana game da al'ada, darajar kai mai kyau, to, wannan, hakika, yana da kyau. Mutum da kuma mutum mai lafiya yana nuna bambanci da girman kai, da gaskiya. Wannan ba laifi ba ne kuma ba dalilin dalili ba - wannan shine yanayin mutane. Bayan haka, girman kai ba komai ba ne kawai dalili don samun nasara na sirri da kuma sana'a. Matasa suna alfaharin girman kai, har ma wadanda aka dauke su misali na halin kirki. Wannan ya ƙunshi babban matsayi na kishi da kuma sha'awar ci nasara a kowane wuri. Saboda haka yana da kyau a girmama shi da ƙauna kanka - yana da kyau ka wuce kadan fiye da rashin sanin cikakken farashi da ƙarfinka.

Ji daɗi

Babu shakka, kada ku zalunci wani mutum sosai, musamman ma abin banza mata. Bayan haka, a cikin wannan yanayin, ba wai kawai kake aikata laifi ba ne kawai, amma zaka iya har abada rasa dangantaka mai kyau tare da shi. Domin da tunani na mata ne da muhimmanci musamman saboda, duk da bambancinsa da kowane mace, duk da haka sun, kamar yadda maza, akwai wani abu a na kowa. Mata, musamman a cikin balagagge, suna da matukar damuwa ga kalmomi da kalmomi, don haka ya fi kyau don yin shiru maimakon faɗar ƙarya. Kuma, ba shakka, wakilan jima'i na jima'i suna yin karin bayani game da bayyanar, hali da kuma tunanin tunanin mutane. Don wata mace ta kowane zamani, yana da muhimmanci a jin dadi da kwantar da hankula, don haka kada ku kasance mai sauƙi, a fili ya nuna duk wani rauni - kawai ku yi shiru, amma idan yana da muhimmanci don kusantar da hankali ga wannan mace, ya fi kyau in gaya mata wannan, shi kadai. Kuma mummunar kudi ba za ta sha wuya ba, kuma za ka kasance cikin dangantaka ta al'ada.