Late isarwa: ko don suna da yara bayan arba'in?

Yau, marigayi delivery ne ake kira farko haihuwa bayan shekara talatin da biyar. Amma yanzu da tsohon ungozoma look askance a ashirin da biyar 'yan mata suka ba haihuwa a karon farko, a asirce kiran su starorodyaschimi. Ina wadannan stereotypes?

A zamanin d duniya ya na kullum ba ta haifi da shekaru ashirin. In ba haka ba mata fada cikin category na musamman mãsu hasãra. Sun yi barazanar jama'a soka, saboda babban dalilin da ciwon yara a lokacin da aka daukar ma'aikata da sojoji - babu yaro, babu fa'ida ga jihar daga irin wannan mace. A tsakiyar zamanai da halin da ake ciki ya inganta ba ta yawa - da 'yan matan ma sun yi aure da wuri, da kuma ga wani yawa mazan abokan, wanda da farko tunani na jima'i, da kuma kawai to, game da maganin hana haihuwa.

Soviet ikon tsakanin ta bedrock dabi'un nan, abin mamaki, kuma tsaye daga. Tuni a cikin shekara ashirin da biyar na farko mace da jariri da dama a cikin wannan "m" category. A wannan definition starorodyaschimi kusan amounted zuwa spinster, barin da yawa mace wakilan kai a wani hanya za su iya.

M seventies, haƙĩƙa, Mun jẽ a cikin post-Soviet kasashen a yammacin iska. A Turai, na farko haihuwa ya steadily "haye" talatin alama, yana da shekaru da uwa ba tsunduma a cikin hukunci. A akasin wannan, a cikin mutãnen ƙarshe da aka gani a matsayin wata ãyã na balaga, tsiwirwirinsu a wani matsayi a cikin al'umma, a barga samun kudin shiga a cikin iyali, da kuma sauransu. D. Wannan matsayi zai zama mayalwaci gane a cikin Union, da kyau, bari shi kadai a cikin kõfatansu a kan duwatsu 90-s shi kawai bai kula, saboda mace ƙara zama muhimmanci a kasuwanci, mata turawa ga wani lokaci. Ko sa'an nan, ƙarnõni na shekaru 45 da aka ba sani wani abu sabon abu. Yanzu Mama forums haka cike da mata shekara arba'in da haihuwa, wanda ake ko dai wani shirin daukar ciki ko ake tattauna da 'ya'yansu colic. Wannan Trend ya nuna cewa ƙarshe ne ba kamar yadda rare a matsayin m zabi na kyau rabin na dan Adam. Kuma haihuwa rates a cikin wannan shekara ba raguwa.

Yana da daraja ambata ma cewa korau lokacin da wani lokacin marigayi bayarwa ba wani zaɓi mata, kuma shi irin damar. Biyan kura-kuran da matasa, ko ga sauran dalilai iya juna biyu kafin, mata suna kan aiki tsaftacewa da haihuwa tsarin to game da shekara arba'in, sa'an nan tambaya na zabar bayarwa lokaci ne ba shi daraja - jima da mafi alhẽri.

Yana da quite m factor na marigayi bayarwa - inganta kudi halin da ake ciki, ko da sake yin aure da wani janar so zuwa jariri. A wannan yanayin, ƙarshe ne ma ba nadiri - da yawa ma'aurata suna yanzu warware domin irin wannan ayyuka. Kuma daga cikinsu m 'yan siyasa, da taurari da nuna kasuwanci, kasuwanci mace.

Doctors ambiguously kimanta marigayi haihuwa. A daya hannun, mafi na kiwon lafiya, da uwa ba ya magana a cikin ni'imar da marigayi ceto - to yana da shekaru arba'in a mace accumulates a tarihi na ba kawai wani gungu na gynecological munanan, amma kuma munanan na zuciya, excretory da kuma narkewa kamar tsarin. Wannan factor ne ko da yaushe amsa da kiwon lafiya na yaro, kuma jiha na kiwon lafiya da na uwarsa a lokacin daukar ciki da na haihuwa. A daya hannun, marigayi haihuwa ba mahaifiyata da yawa na amincewa a gaskiyar cewa shi zai iya mayalwaci ta da wani yaro, ba ceton on na farko abubuwa, samar da bukatun ruhaniya na jaririn. Kamar yadda wata babbar nan da aka kara wa ƙãra nauyin da uban yaron - yawanci marigayi bayarwa ga shugaban Kirista - mai girma damar gane ubanci a cike.

Abin da dalilai ga marigayi delivery, uwar kamata su sani cewa a cikin shekaru sittin da ta zai zama ko da, a gaskiya, wani saurayi wanda yana bukatar wata babbar taimako. A halin yanzu, taimakon iya bukatar da iyaye. A mafi yawan 'yan zamaninsu rubuta a cikin shekaru saba'in, amma ko shi wajibi ne don hukunta wani yaro ya zama shi kadai?