Auren mace daya ne rayayye karfafa ta zamani dokokin da hanyar rayuwa. Duk da cewa da manufa ma'aurata zama kawai a kan wasu inuwõyi na mujallu, da kuma a tallace, shi ne mai karfi stereotype. A farin ciki aure - mata da miji wanda ya sadu da juna a makaranta (dalibi) benci, da zũriyarsu. The uku adult ne babu shakka superfluous. Saboda haka da iyali da aka gane a cikin taro sani. Duk da haka, abubuwan da ba haka ba ne mai sauki a rayuwa, kuma mafi aure kasa, da kuma a wasu lokuta ya faru ko dai "bar" yin yawo ko tsanani litattafan. Ba da nisa, ka nemi: tuna soyayya da rayuwar iyali na mu mai girma. Alexander II, Nekrasov, Pushkin, Tiutchev, Block, White, Mayakovsky, Vysotsky ... Idylls nan kuwa bãbu wani. Aminci monogamous ma'aurata - banda maimakon mulkin. Domin irin wannan model dangantaka a wanda ko dai maza biyu raba tsakanin mace (Block, White kuma Lyubov Mendeleeva) ko mijin yana da, ban da matarsa, kuma a lover (ko wani biyu matarsa - misali, kamar yadda Ivan Bunin), akwai ma wani lokaci "Swedish iyali". Af, ba dole ba ne ya nufin shi ne jima'i zina. Bamuda iya daura daban-daban dangantaka - biyu platonic da batsa, ciki har da bi- da kishili (Henry Miller, ya Yuni matarsa da ta lover). An muhimmanci bambanci daga kafirci ne bude. Irin wannan ma'aurata iya fuskanci wani iri-iri na ji, misali, wani zai yi kokarin kiyaye aure, kuma saboda bada 'yanci ga mata (misali: Mayakovsky alwatika - Lily da Osip Brik). Amma duk mambobi ne na alliance suna shan shi a wani matsayi a cikin dangantaka.
Saboda haka da yawa misalai. Kamata na bi shi - da kowa da kowa hukunci a gare kansa. A cikin wadannan madaidaci mutane ki "ikon mallakar" a kan abokin tarayya, don haka a hankali shi ne wahayi zuwa gare kwadago. Yin watsi m kishi, suka sami ba kawai wani sabon kwarewa. Wadannan triangles canza kama, da kuma psyche na kowane daga cikin mahalarta. Bayan duk, idan akwai gasar, shi dole ne a sarrafawa. Yana iya samar da musayar abõkan tãrayya (da ake kira "lilo"). Amma mafi za a iya samu sentences kamar "yarinya ga ma'aurata." Kuma ba ko da yaushe Mafarin na "polygamy" shi ne wani mutum. Sau da yawa, wannan zabin ne manufa dangantaka bisexual 'yan mata. Ma'aurata sukan neman ba kawai bambancin, amma cikakken memba na kungiyar, wanda za a iya raba da weekdays, kuma holidays. Dating shafukan sukan sami talla kamar "neman ma'aurata" - da kuma lura da cewa shi ne ba kawai game da jima'i. Akwai hanyoyi daban-daban domin tantance wannan sabon abu, shi ne mai yiwuwa a sha'awan ko haushin promiscuity fansa. Amma ma'aurata, ya yanke shawarar a kan irin wannan gwajin cancanci girmamawa. Af, a gabashin al'ummomi halatta polygamy a general - wanda yake nufin shi yana da hakkin rayuwa. Daga mai nazarin halittu ra'ayi, wannan dangantaka kuma suna da hakki. Takin da dama mãtã, namiji taimaka wa bambancin kwayoyin na HALITTAR. A mafi tsanani matsaloli na iya tashi daga "crowning" nau'i-nau'i, wanda Orthodox ko Katolika bangaskiya baro-baro haramta irin wannan dangantaka. Kuma daga cikin ra'ayi na jami'an gwamnati da kuma 'yan majalisa ne mai wuya halin da ake ciki. Saboda haka, irin wannan ma'aurata ba zai iya formalize dangantaka da wani ɓangare na uku.