Babban mataki a cikin ci gaban mutum a matsayin mutum, ko Mene ne samartaka

Magana bushe harshen kimiyya, shi ne mai sauki amsa tambaya cewa shi ne samartaka. Wannan shi ne yana da shekaru tsakanin yara da kuma girma up mutum. Amma rayuwar wani lokacin ne mai wuya a zana wani sarari line cikin wuri lokacin da yana da lokaci domin kawo karshen tsana da motoci da kuma fara wani zaman kanta adult rayuwa. Zai yiwu inna da baba for cewa shekaru ba zai zo.

Yadda za a bari tafi da yaron?

Yanzu halaye da kuma hanyoyi na ilimi da irin wannan cewa an dauki al'ada idan yaro na zaune a cikin iyali, ko da a lokacin horo a institute, ko 'yan shekarun da suka gabata da suka wuce, matasa da aka aiko zuwa ga makarantu a zahiri yara, shekaru 11-12 shekaru. A tsarist Rasha, da kuma ta samo asali da Kalmar "yaro", wanda aikatã kagaggun boys, kula da iyalinsa a matsayin almajiri ya daban-daban sana'a, da firistoci, manya.

Amma da aka fi so 'ya'ya mata da iyayensu ne m ya nuna su' yancin kai, mulkin kai, nuna dukan hali, cewa shi ne samartaka. The matsaloli na mika mulki shekaru - shi ne mai larura cewa kana so ka rayu da kuma shawo kan kowane mutum. A wannan zamani, akwai manyan canje-canje a cikin tunani da kuma gangar jiki. Kuma wani lokacin da jariri jiya ne mai wuya a kansa gane da kuma fahimtar duk wadannan canje.

A karkashin abin da shekaru iyaka da dama a cikin tsawon shekarun girma?

Mene ne samartaka, Sahaban quite wuyar fahimta. A shekara ta ashirin da arni na farko, da suka ce "matashi" ko wani Yammacin-style - "matashi". Translation daga Turanci a zahiri za a iya riskarsa kamar da shekaru daga 13 zuwa 19 da shekaru (matasa - shekaru mutum a cikin wannan tsarin lokaci, shekaru - shekarun). Wannan lokaci ya dauka tushen da aka yi amfani da ko'ina a cikin kimiyya wallafe-wallafe da kuma a cikin rayuwar yau da kullum. Ya bluntly characterizes samartaka, shekaru, muhimmi a cikinsu. Amma a lokaci guda, Western Psychologists sun gusa daga bayyananne rarrabuwa da kuma jeri na duk yara da guda goga. A lokacin bayan da yara, wani zai fara a shekaru 11 da kuma ƙare a 19, amma wani zai fara girma kusa 13-14 shekaru, da kuma m shekaru kanta ba zai iya šauki tsawon fiye da shekaru 15-16. All musamman akayi daban-daban. Bayan haka, 'yan mata, wadannan matakai dauki wuri kafin da kuma kadan wuta fiye da yara maza.

Matsalolin na mika mulki shekaru

A psyche na 'yan mata ne mafi barga, su ne m iya ba a m yanayi, watakila saboda sadarwar da mahaifiyar, cewa da gaske shiga cikin su da matsaloli da kuma gogewa. The boys fara jin wani canji a cikin jiki, gane cewa samun mazan, amma dogara a kan nufin zumunta presses da kuma rude. Duk wannan zai iya kai wa ga kadaici, rarrabuwa, rikice-rikice, a gida da kuma a makaranta, a kan titi.

A general, rikice-rikice kai tsaye ba su fahimci cewa samartaka ne, ke yin wahayi duk da matsaloli, da imperfections na ilimi, da matakin da dorewa na wani matashi psyche. Don kauce wa matsaloli a cikin iyali wanda da wuya ta kasa a wannan lokaci. Iyaye wuya a gane cewa fi so yaron daina zama yaro, shi wajibi ne don koyi saurare, don rage matakin na iko da hankali bari tafi. Rawar da cikakken iko da kuma manajan - wannan shi ne wani kwaro da babu shakka zai haifar da husuma, da jayayya, da rashin fahimtar juna tsakanin masõyansa.

Features sadarwa na matasa tare da da takwarorinsu, malamai, iyaye

Har ila yau, da bambance-bambance samartaka daga yara ne iyali da kuma makaranta za a iya gano sosai a fili, tsakanin takwarorina, abokai da kuma makiya. Wannan shi ne yana da shekaru na hali da kuma perfectionism, wanda shi ne muhimmi a cikin idealization kuma polarity a tunani. Idan yara dauki kome quite a zahiri, a da matasa fara da farko yunkurin yi da kuma ma'ana tattaunawa basira. Matasa suna kokarin lashe wani wuri a karkashin hasken rana, zamanto farko matakai don ƙarfafa ta matsayi a cikin al'umma, gwagwarmayar jagoranci, iko.

An canza tare da zuwan samartaka, da kuma duba a makaranta da kuma malamai. Ganin cewa a baya wani malami da kalmomi ba a tambaye ku, a yanzu fara wani kalubale kare sirri ra'ayi.

A lokacin samartaka iyaye bukatar biya yawa da hankali ga yaro koya ba wai kawai don su ji shi, amma kuma ya saurara, ya shawarci. Wani nauyi zuwa da ra'ayoyi na matasa girma, na iya haifar da irreparable sakamakon cewa zai shafi dukan rayuwa a nan gaba na biyu da yaro da iyalinsa.