Adawa - shi ne wani tasiri dabara a kwakwalwa shawara

Kowane contrasting aman moriyar, halaye kira adawa. A general sharuddan, a adawa - a karo na saba trends a kafofin tsarin. Wadannan iya zama aji bambance-bambance, frictions akida da siyasa ra'ayoyi, da dai sauransu. Duk da haka, wannan lokaci ne kuma ake magana a kai a matsayin daya daga cikin mafi hadaddun da, a lokaci guda, m dabaru a m shawara. Ka yi la'akari da abin da kayan aiki har yanzu amfani da shawara zaman, da kuma adawa daga cikinsu tsaye a waje.

Tare da shawara da psychologist - ba kawai "furci"

Wani mutum ya zo don wani gwani tare da wani takamaiman matsalar, wanda shi da kansa ya yi kokarin warware, jawabi ga dangi, abokai, watakila ma psychics. Amma matsalar ta ci gaba, da kuma psychologist yana da babban nauyi. Ya dole warware da hadaddun tunani, son zuciya.Magana, don samun zuwa ga gaskiya da kuma nuna shi ga abokin ciniki. Saboda haka, a cikin filin na mutum rai sana'a kamata ba kawai saurare ga abokin ciniki, amma a san yadda za a gabatar da tambayoyi, samar da m fassarar abin da ya ji, shiriritar, wani lokacin ma su shiga cikin wata adawa tare da abokin ciniki ya nuna masa jigon ya matsaloli ga abokin ciniki zuwa ga kuma fahimtar abin da na ga wani psychologist.

Dabaru in m shawara

A takaice nuna a fakaice da tushen fasahar amfani da psychologist:

• Tambayoyi - su za a iya bayyanawar da kuma tunani-sa.
• Natsuwã ne, kuma ƙarfafawa kamar yadda manifestations empathy da kuma abokin ciniki yarda.
• gani fasahar hankula da kuma abun ciki abokin ciniki labarin.
• Dakatar da na shiru - ba abokin ciniki damar zuwa nike da bayanai, da kuma wani psychologist tunani.
• Shiriritar da fassarar.
• Adawa - wata dabara da cewa na bukatar wani takamaiman m basira, da amincewa da kuma a wasu aiki.

Adawa a tunani da kuma psychotherapy

Lokacin da wani abokin ciniki gaya wa psychologist game da matsalar, ba zai iya kalle shi daga waje. Tun da tarihi na abokin ciniki - a halin da ake ciki tare da kawai daya hannun, da labarin shi ne babu makawa ba saba wa juna a cikin farillai, maganganun da ji-mutumin. A abokin ciniki ba ko da lura da shi, sa'an nan da aiki na ba da shawara - ya nuna masa wadannan saba wa juna. Kullum, da adawa - shi ne wani dauki ga psychologist, wanda shi ne saba wa hali na abokin ciniki ko farillai. Consultant shiga tare da wani mutumin a cikin wani irin adawa, yãƙi nuna masa duk dabaru, evasions, da dai sauransu Amfani da wadannan dabaru, abokin ciniki ba yi da cewa yaudarar kansa. wannan irin kariya daga bayanin da zai nuna cewa shi ya zargi ga matsalar. Ya kamata a lura cewa adawa - wannan ba hanyar zuwa wani abokin ciniki wulãkanci, kuma kayan aiki tsara don su taimake shi. The adawa da ake amfani a uku lokuta:

1. Lokacin da kake so ka zana abokin ciniki ta da hankali ga musu a Umarnansa, damunsu, tunaninsu, hali da kuma ta nufi.
2. Lokacin da wani abokin ciniki ba zai iya ganin halin da ake ciki da ma'ana saboda son zuciyarsu da bukatun.
3. Lokacin da wani abokin ciniki a sume jin kunya daga tattauna takamaiman yanayi da kuma matsaloli.

Amfani da adawa a cikin aikinsa, cikin psychologist dole su gane alhakin, na da dabarun da aiki lafiya, a wani hali, kada ka yi amfani da shi a matsayin hanyar azãba kõ halakar abokin ciniki kariya sunadaran.