Childfree - cewa shi ne. Childfree a Rasha

A zaman sabon abu da ya zama batu na wannan labarin, yana bunkasa a Rasha da kuma sauran kasashen CIS tun lokacin da marigayi 90 ta - farkon 2000 ta. Yana yana da wani gauraye kima tsakanin mutane wanda ba a sani tare da wannan falsafa. A mutunta mutane da yawa da sabanin da kuma wani lokacin sharply korau ji alaka, kamar yadda shi ne sau da yawa yanayin, da rashin bayani. Muna magana ne game da manufar "childfree". Wannan shi ne, a lokacin da kuma yadda za a bayyana, abin da kwallaye shi ne mai zaman jama'a motsi? Kuma, mafi muhimmanci, da yadda shi rinjayar da sauran al'umma? A cikin wannan labarin, za mu amsa wadannan tambayoyi duka, kuma zuwa debunk camfin.

History of events

Childfree ( "childfree") a Rasha nufin "free daga yara." Wannan Trend fara a cikin 1970s a cikin United States a lokacin da taro da zanga-zanga domin hakkokin, 'yanci da adalci. Kamar wancan ne aka halicci National Organization for Non-Iyaye (wadanda ba), wanda ya tsaya a asalin biyu mahalarta na dandalin mata motsi, Ellen rarake da Shirli Radl. Ma'ana kungiyar ya kawo ra'ayin mazan jiya jama'a tunanin cewa wata mace na da hakkin ba wa 'ya'ya, idan ba ka so.

Wannan sanarwa ta fito da wani gagarumin canji a cikin jama'a hankali, saboda har sai da shi ya yi imani da cewa wani m kin amincewa da procreation yana nufin ciwon jiki ko m ailments Properties. A m sanarwa na biyu gwagwarmaya ba da amincewa da kuma sauran matan da jin wannan, amma bai yi kuskure ce da karfi. Wadanda kungiyar da sauri ya zama m, kuma a 1980 aka canza kama zuwa da motsi na childfree. Amma idan Amurka mabiya bai bar 'ya'ya salon sau da yawa tsunduma a aiki zamantakewa da kuma dauki bangare a cikin al'amurran siyasa, da post-Soviet sarari ne mai zaman jama'a motsi yana cikin hali na kulob din ta amfane shi.

Akai-akai tambayi tambayoyi

Daga cikin mutanen da suka ba la'akari da kansu ga wannan sabon abu da kuma ba shi da irin wannan abokai, akwai mutane da yawa rashin fahimtar juna da kuma ko da camfin game da childfree.

"Abin da ya rage tare da su? Yaya za ka iya ba ka so a yi a kalla daya yaro? "

Ya kamata a tuna cewa procreation ba wani takalifi, da kuma rashin son su yi shi ba faye hali mutum a cikin wani mummunan hanya. A akasin wannan, da ya ce game da kirki da kunya da kuma alhakin nan gaba. Yara tsaye a cikin al'amarin, a lokacin da ka gaske suna da so da kuma damar iya tada kadan mutum.

"Wannan shi ne m kin amincewa da iyaye, wanda ke nufin childfree kiyayya yara?"

Ba haka. A general dangane da matasa tsara a cikin wadannan manya jeri daga mai kyau-har tsaka tsaki sha'aninsu dabam. Mutane da yawa da yardarsa bai bar 'ya'ya mutane suna farin ciki da suke ciyarwa lokaci da ta dan'uwa da kuma nieces, da yara na abokai da sauransu. D. yawa diehard childfree nasarar fahimtar da su yuwuwar a fagen koyarwa. Daya ya kawai ya lura cewa "free yaro" ne sosai m zuwa aiki yunkurin gabatar da wani hanyarsa ta rayuwa.

"Childfree Chayldheyt kuma - abin da yake da shi? A wannan ko daban-daban? "

Rudani wadannan sosai daban-daban mamaki, mutane zo da erroneous Tsayawa akan matsayin cewa son rai childlessness - ne saboda abin da kona rashin jituwa zuwa ƙaramin tsara. Duk da yake da "childfree" na nufin "free yara", "chayldheyt" fassara a matsayin "detonenavistniki". Ba bukatar ka sani kuma yi amfani da-Anglicisms sharuddan, su fahimci yadda wadannan biyu mamaki suna da nisa daga juna. Na farko rukuni na mutane dadi tare da sauran yara, amma fi son ba da nasu. Na biyu kungiyar ne fuskantar wani m korau ji wajen kadan mutane cewa zai iya faruwa ko a cikin ta'adi. Musamman irin, a lokaci guda bakin ciki cewa masu kiyayya yara Ba dole ba ne, marar 'ya'ya. Lokuta da m ko ta jiki da tashin hankali a cikin iyali sau da yawa saboda gaskiyar cewa iyaye domin dalilai daban-daban, tana bayyana kanta a matsayin chayldheyter.

Kamar yadda masana ilimin tunani na

Daga ciki rai na mutum masana ba su da wata hujja ra'ayi game da son rai childlessness. Kokarin gane abin da ake nufi childfree matsayin zamantakewa da m sabon abu, yin amfani da masana ilimin tunani suna da wadannan yiwu dalilai domin wannan zabi:

1. Korau abubuwan a nasu yara.

A cewar wannan dabaru, dalilin shiga cikin childfree ne tsõro (m ko latent) su maimaita model na iyaye, daga abin da mutane sha wahala, da kansa yaro.

2. The son kai da kuma rashin ci gaba.

A wannan yanayin, da son rai childlessness zaban mutumin, wanda suka ce "madawwami yaro". Saboda haka peculiar mayar da hankali musamman a kan nasu bukatun, kazalika da hedonism - da so don samun mafi daga rayuwa. Wanda ke nufin cewa wadannan mutane ba su ji da ƙarfin da ya nuna cewa wani babban alhakin, kula juna da ragowa da ƙaddamar zama dole don nan gaba uwaye da kakanninsu.

3. The so a cimma sana'a Heights.

Wannan kungiyar kunshi childfree, da irin aiki da ake dangantawa da kasuwanci, da zane-zane, wasanni, kimiyya, da kuma sauran yankunan da bukatar wani babban alƙawari. A irin wannan yanayi, mutum ba shi da lokacin ko damar, ko ma kawai da bukatar su shiga a cikin haihuwa da kuma tarbiyyar zuriyarsa. Bayan duk, hada da kuka fi so aiki da cikakken ilimi na yara - wani aiki kusan yiwu ba, musamman a cikin Rasha gaskiya.

4. A matsa lamba na da ra'ayin mazan jiya sojojin a cikin al'umma.

Wani ra'ayi a kan sabon abu daga childfree aka duba shi a matsayin mayar da martani ga gwamnatin manufofin, yana kira zuwa ga kai kamar yadda zai yiwu da kuma inganta alƙaluma da halin da ake ciki. Hakika, a cikin wannan yanayin, da zabi na childlessness ne tunaninsu da lamirinsu - a dauki ga wuce kima shafi tunanin mutum da m matsa lamba.

Kuma yanzu dubi dalilan da suka shiga cikin aikin marasa 'ya'ya, dangane da jinsi bambance-bambance.

Mata da maza childfree

Mene ne akwai a cikin wannan zamantakewa motsi, wanda janyo hankalin duka biyu mata da maza?

Nazarin ya nuna cewa mata yawanci m da wani so da za a gane da fasaha da kuma ya kebe karin lokaci domin kai ci gaban. Lalle ne, tare da kadan yaro a kan hannuwa, yana da wuya a gina wani aiki, kuma ko da a lokacin da wani gajeren na haihuwa iznin, za ka iya rasa your mafarki aiki. Bugu da kari, da ilimi na zuriyarsa, musamman ma a farkon shekara na rayuwa bar kadan lokaci da kuma damar da za su yi tafiya, da nazari, da kuma kawai karanta littattafai.

Amma ga mutãne, sai su suna zabar da style childfree rai, sau da yawa shiryar da m dalilin fiye da mata. Babban shaida ga namiji zama nawa don kafada da kudi nauyin da cewa babu makawa taso a haihuwa da kuma tarbiyyar da yaro ta nan gaba. Maza-childfree son samun karin 'yancin kai da kuma m wajibai, da kuma dama da wani lokacin m ko tafiya ba tare da an daure da bukatar ciyar da iyali.

Wata gardamar aikin bai bar 'ya'ya mutane biyu mata da maza, an kira: haihuwa kiwon lafiya Hazard, tabarbarewar dangantakar cikin aure da kuma m rayuwar wani take hakkin iyaye bayan haihuwa.

A general, manufa wasa na wani chayldfri wani abokin tarayya tare da guda daidai imani. A wannan yanayin, za su iya gina wani karin jitu dangantaka, bã tãre da shakka ko mistrust, a irin wannan muhimmin al'amari kamar yadda naƙuda.

Free kuma sanannen

Da son rai renunciation na ilimi na yara - wani sabon abu quite yadu, amma a general wadannan mutane asusu domin kawai 1-2 kashi a cikin al'umma. Wannan ya hada da suka zaba rayuwa style childfree celebrities. Daga gare su, daya daga cikin na farko kommunistok da mayakan for hakkin mata Clara Zetkin, film da serial actress Renée Zellweger, Cameron Diaz, Jennifer Aniston, Kim Ketroll da Eva Mendes, TV runduna Opra Uinfri da Ksenia Sobchak, da singer Kayli Minoug.

Tofin infertile maza, cikin shahararrun actor Dzhordzh Kluni da Kristofer Uoken.

Sadarwa don childfree

Meet mutanen da suka zabi son rai childlessness, a cikin m lokaci faruwa a kan daban-daban Internet shafukan. Akwai dace forums, diary al'umma kungiyoyin, jama'a da sauransu. D. A wadannan yanar gizo albarkatun iya sadarwa tare da takwarorina, tambayoyi, zuba fitar da zũciyarsa, kuma sami wani aboki da irin wannan zama na gaba.

forums

A Popular forum ne "Planet childfree". A nan, masu amfani ya kasu kashi ciwon, tattauna rayuwa labaru, barkwanci a kan da dama batutuwa (ba kawai alaka da childfree falsafa), sami, kuma goya amfani bayanai - a takaice, jin dadi. Forum "Planet childfree" shi ne a wasu ji wani kanti don mutanen da suka a rayuwar yau da kullum ba a kewaye da kamar shiryayye a al'amura na procreation, amma maimakon "akida makiya", da nuna wani rashin fahimtar ko rashin kissa a cikin sadarwa.

social Networking

Sosai raya da kuma abun ciki childfree al'umma ne dake a cikin "Live Journal". A lokacin, shi ne na farko a RuNet dandali don sadarwa tsakanin mutane suka zabi son rai childlessness.

Mafi mashahuri Rasha zamantakewa cibiyar sadarwa ila yau yana da jama'a page da kuma kungiyar fuskantarwa childfree. Daya daga cikin mafi mashahuri ne da ake kira "Childfree a Rasha." "VKontakte" kawo tare da masu amfani daga daban-daban birane da kuma kasashen, sa shi yiwuwa a magana a kan halin yanzu batutuwa a real lokaci. Bugu da kari ga kungiyoyin, akwai Jama'a m ra'ayin, kamar "overheard childfree". Wani abun lura sabon abu za a iya kira al'umma a kan social networks, mayar da hankali a kan aure / aure ko a dogon lokaci dangantaka da mutane. Ga za ka iya tattauna fasali na rayuwar iyali ba tare da yara, da kuma neman shawara a lokuta da rashin fahimta tare da wani abokin tarayya a wannan batun. A general, wani iri-iri na zaman jama'a interactions - wancan ne abin da suka aikata band mambobi "Childfree a Rasha" da kuma sauran irin wannan al'ummomi a kan Internet.

maimakon a ƙarshe

"Free Child" - don haka kada jin bukatar da zũriyarmu, kuma sun gangan zaba childlessness. Ba shi yiwuwa a kira shi da wani subculture childfree, a matsayin kungiyar da babu musamman dokoki ko rarrabe waje fasali. Kuma da zamantakewa motsi (a kalla a cikin CIS kasashe), su za a iya daukan wani stretch, saboda ba su sa a gaba kirari da kada ka yi kokarin canza duniya. A general zamu iya cewa childfree - a hanyarsa ta rayuwa, wanda za a iya gane ko ba, girmamawa ne shakka daraja shi, idan kawai saboda wadannan mutane ne masu gaskiya a cikin su zabi kuma ba Ya kãmã shi ga wasu.